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Re: Discussion Topics? 2 of 2
Posted by Karen on Sat Feb 16, 2002 10:49:59 AM
In reply top Discussion Topics? 2 of 2 posted by Paul McMillan on Sat Feb 16, 2002 09:21:40 AM
Hi All,
Let me begin by saying this is all just my opinion, as a relative of a pilot who was killed in a warbird.
That being said let me also say that I do not agree that grief heals. It becomes tolerable, but the loss is always there. I recently visited Dean's sister, who is 82 now. She spoke at great length about her brother Dean, remembering him as though she had spoken to him yesterday, not 57 years ago. Tears sparkled in her eyes as we spoke of the crash. The pain is still there.
However, she as well as the rest of us, are very pleased and grateful that Dean has been so well honored, for his sacrifice. He has received recognition that few of these brave men ever will.
When it comes to seeing Dean's plane fly again, (and this is hypothetical), because as I have learned there is not enough plane left for a restoration. I feel if it is done properly, with respect, it is feasable.
The biggest problem I see is the pain it will cause the families involved, to see the airplane which took their loved ones life, take to the air again. I have witnessed and experienced, what seeing the twisted remains, of a once beautiful airplane, can do to a loved one. It would be difficult to see this plane fly again, but it would also add a slightly positive footnote to an otherwise total tragedy.
I feel quite certain there are many people who would disagree with me, but from my point of view, I think these planes should fly again only if the family approves. If they do not approve then put it in a museum, as a reminder of the terrible cost of freedom. If there is no family left, then allow it to fly, but pay proper respect to the pilot who flew it, nonetheless.
You are quite right Paul, this is a very emotional subject, but true lovers of history, and those who truly respect what these brave men did, will find the right way to do this. After all, I feel certain there will always be someone looking over their shoulder.
Karen